Mothers Who Spank and Get Spanked

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Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness -- Blaire, 14:41:46 08/11/23 Fri This very naughty little boy needs his bottom spanked hard and he’s refusing to obey me – can you help me with him, please?” I’m sure Aunt Pam deliberately used humiliating, babyish language. This angered me and I became quite sullen and sulky. They must have planned this the previous night, and I had been outwitted and thoroughly outsmarted by the two mothers. My own had spanked me last night – now it was the turn of Adam’s mum. She didn’t waste time. “Young man, Adam’s mum tells me you were very naughty and cheeky at the party. We have decided you deserve a good spanking. I’m very disappointed in you!” She stopped at the door, turned and put her finger on the light switch. Our eyes met for a second, she smiled and said: “Goodnight – love you.” She turned out the light and closed the door. What the hell? First she spanks me, tells me off, then smiles and says she loves me? Confused or what?

So my jeans came down. Remember, removing clothing was never part of my spankings, so I still wasn’t really thinking in that direction. I stood there in just my yellow panties. Thirty-five years later, I still remember the panties I wore that day – not what shirt or shoes, but I remember the underwear. Repeated acts of disobedience after other forms of discipline have been used. As I mentioned above, “time-out” usually works very well for my daughter for most significant behavioral issues. She actually is a kid who wants to do the right thing and she always has been that way. Providing clear verbal expectations generally leads her to make “good” choices. However, there are days with she is just plain defiant. She has ended up in timeout multiple times, has been told multiple times what the expected behavioral expectations are, and we have had multiple conversations discussing how I can help her manage her behaviors and emotions more positively; and still, misbehavior occurs. At this point, spanking is used in our house. It is not a surprise, it is not unexpected. She knows this is what will occur if misbehavior continues to occur.The following true story took place in the summer of 1984, when I was nine years old. My parents had divorced two years earlier. Since then, I had lived with my mom in New England, and had spent four weeks every summer with my dad at his home in Georgia.

I want to make sure that my children are warned ahead of time what is expected of them and how I will respond in a case of disobedience. For example, my two-year-old has been asked not to run in the kitchen because it is unsafe. On the first occurrence, I would say to him, preferably at eye-level so that I know he is hearing me, “Please do not run in the kitchen because it is not a safe place for running.” Then, let him continue on with his day. I then asked whether Adam would get one on his birthday. ”Quite possibly – if he wants one.” Oh boy! My blood was pumping, even though she never actually said the word ‘spanking’, which was a bit disappointing. Re: Accentuating the muffin top so to speak to me when I place him across my lap. -- Lois, 03:36:00 09/08/23 Fri Re: What Should Happen To A Naughty Boy -- glen (6 boys paddled bare at 15+), 19:15:05 03/06/18 Tue Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness -- Kelly, 09:09:37 08/10/23 Thu

I always offer my child my lap immediately after a spanking. Generally, they come to me with a few tears and I hold them quietly for a time, allowing them to feel the emotions that come with receiving a discipline. Re: What does your brush, implement look like, where is it kept -- Robert to Lindy, 11:46:06 10/02/23 Mon Now is the time for a hug, a kiss, and to move on with your day. As soon as you leave that moment, no more talking about the issue, no more rehashing it with them. Of course, if the issue continues, you will need to stay consistent, but aside from that, it’s time to continue on and leave it in the past